What can you do? Challenge the fixed mindset:
1. Choose a sphere or an activity where you would like to test your abilities. Secure the support of at least one person who believes in you.
2. Detail your plans. Outline how you will proceed despite self-criticism. Establish a plan with objectives. Anticipate potential difficulties and devise strategies to overcome them.
3. Act. Positive thoughts fuel action. Even if you are unsure about success, make a decision and act.
4. Catch yourself when you think in terms of a fixed mindset. If you err, don't lose hope, instead, consider how to improve next time. Avoid saying that you're not cut out for this or not born to do this. Concentrate on your efforts and accomplishments.
5. Avoid overreacting to problems. If you encounter failure and believe you lacked the necessary skills, remember that learning is always possible. Your first attempt may not succeed, but don't lose hope. Use the experience to learn and try again. If the second attempt fails, be persistent. Replace the thought "I can't do this" with "I may not succeed immediately, but I can learn. Practice makes perfect.
6. Reflect after each significant effort. Reflection is crucial for a growth mindset. If you don't assess your role in your successes or failures, it's challenging to develop a strategy for self-improvement. Ask yourself about your efforts, strategies, and resources:
- Could I have practiced harder?
- Was my practice routine good?
- Could I get ready better for the next attempt?